Today I'm sharing how I started blogging in my fifties with A Portrait Of An Empty Nester. In all honesty, I've never felt more comfortable in my own skin. The term nifty fifty describes this major milestone perfectly, at least it has for me, and I’ll be graduating in less than two years.
A Portrait Of An Empty NesterI started blogging in my mid-50’s after my youngest graduated from high school. Thank goodness, because when we became empty nesters shortly thereafter, I would have been lost without this blog. To my surprise, the empty nest hit me hard…real hard. The pin-dropping silence permeating this house drove me crazy and the stereo became my constant companion.
That’s when I decided to take advantage of the uninterrupted time and immerse myself into blogging, taking it from a hobby blog to a let’s get down to business. Besides, Mama hung up her apron and semi-retired from kitchen duties and needed a Dine Out Fund!
I also needed a space to create my new found love of breathing new life into furniture and home décor, the content aspect of my blog. So I took over the man cave a.k.a. basement workshop. Slowly the shelves filled with chalk and craft paint and work tables were erected in the middle of the room. In fact, I wrote a blog post about it here at She Ain't Pretty But She's Functional.
With an Interior Redesign/Home Staging certification under my belt, one of my first post-empty nest projects was converting a now empty bedroom into a guest room. A warm and inviting space that how could the kids resist coming home for the holidays, despite living only a ten-minute drive away.
The next big project on my To Do List was getting rid of the dark fingerprint/dirt-concealing cabinetry and painting it white. I started in the kitchen and worked my way towards the living room and dining room.
Kitchen Cabinets Painted White
You can see how our kitchen used to look like the inside of a wooden box here in my post, Kitchen Makeover On A Budget.
Living Room Built-In Fireplace And BookcasesWould you believe these built-ins used to be an 80's wall unit? You can see how we repurposed it here at A Repurposed 80's Wall Unit and how I refreshed it with A Pop Of Lime In The Living Room.
Dining Room MakeoverThe dining room was a dark and dreary space that I couldn't wait to tackle. As with the kitchen, a can of paint completely transformed this space. You can see the before pictures here in my Dining Room Makeover post.
Changing The FurnitureAfter the rooms were lightened and brightened, so too needed the furniture. One of the perks with children leaving the nest is that you can send them off with the furniture you no longer want.
All the furniture in our dining room (pictured above) were thrift store finds that I refreshed with chalk paint and new upholstery. Because this thrifty gal did not want to dip into the Dine Out Budget for new furniture.
The armchairs in the living room were found online for a song and refreshed with white chalk paint and new upholstery with a Parisian flair. The round swan table in the center also received a makeover.
Then this happened…
…and life in our home came full circle.
And the stereo that filled the void of silence now looks like this…
Those fresh white painted cabinets now have these on each door…
And every time after we send him home to Mommy and Daddy loaded with sugar, our living room looks like this…
Even our cat is looking down from a chair scoping the mess (look closely at the reflection in the fireplace glass).
And we wouldn’t change it for anything in the world!
- Life is good -
- Life is good -
I invite and encourage you to visit the other Fifty and Fabulous gals in The 50+ Crowd.
Press the links below to be taken to their blog posts. Be prepared to be touched, inspired, and encouraged with a sprinkle here and there of laughter. Enjoy!